hi, my name is isabel. I am 20 years old, and me and my boyfriend broke up 4 weeks ago exactly. We dated for a year and almost 5 months, i was his very first serious relationship. but it was all a little complicated, we had met at a party but we couldn’t really see each other all that much. during the time we dated, we were only able to see each other about 8 times because he had no car and neither did i, but either way we still loved each other very much. but anyways, he had introduced me to his parents and his family and his friends. we both had way too many things in common and we both wanted the same things for our future. we had everything planned out like what age we would get married, how many kids we would have, who would the godparents would be, etc etc.. so he then decided to start attending a college nearby to me, i live in riverside and he lived in L.A. He also had decided to start dorming at Cal State San Bernardino because he wanted to see me alot more and fix the problem that we couldnt see each other much, i felt really happy about that but i felt bad for him because he was leaving all his family and friends and he knew nobody at cal state san bernardino. but about a month before he started dorming there, before he was even able to start dorming there, he had told me that his feelings for me were starting to go away, i got really sad and frustrated and i asked him if we could try, to try to make him fall in love with me again so he gave me the chance, i had started studying the driver handbook and i was planning to see him the week he started dorming there.. but a day before i was gonna see him he told me he didn’t have any feelings for me anymore, so he ended up breaking up with me. His best friend was really surprised about the break up and asked him what happened, and he said that it was because me and my ex boyfriend didnt see each other much. so i had decided on something, i was gonna go every friday to go see him, but after the second friday that i went to see him (which was an amazing day by the way, we were laughing alot) he had updated his Facebook and he had put that he was in a relationship 3 days later after i went to see him. i got really upset that i even walked out of my class and i called him, i asked him since when he had met her and he started liking her and he had said that it was the thursday before my last friday visit to him.. i waited like an hour after that call, and i texted him that i would still like to be friends, he had agreed but he said that we couldnt talk as much, i asked him why and he said that it wouldn’t be right.. then i asked him why wouldnt it be right, that i was just going to be his friend and he didnt reply back anymore, my mom then found out and she got really upset with him because of what happened and she had me delete him from my Facebook. but then i sent him a couple messages later that day trying to get him to reply but no answer. so then i decided to try the NC rule to try to make him miss me and right now, i currently have 2 weeks and 4 days that i dont speak to him.. but i have to be completely honest with you, i feel really bad, i wake up every morning with a huge lump in my throat that its so difficult for me to even eat breakfast, but i still eat it and then i feel nauseated… i have had many dreams about him. i just really feel the need to talk about it with someone, i just really want to get him back, me and him shared pretty much the same goals together and we wanted the same things pretty much, we were just so happy together, always laughing and smiling.. oh and i am about to buy a car, i forgot to mention that and i am going to transfer to the same school as him. i really dont just want to give up on him, he has always motivated me to be a better person.. he always thought i was funny and really caring. So is there a way I can get him back?